Thursday, January 6, 2011

Facebook 'friends' mock 'suicide' of woman who posted goodbye message

Facebook 'friends' mock 'suicide' of woman who posted goodbye message

And this is why I've left so many websites and deleted the posts that I could - not counting the ones that I've been booted from for not espousing the same belief-system as the membership thereof.

Way too people have become "virtual head hunters" -- as if collecting the so-called "friendship" of others could give one a genuine sense of belonging and self-esteem?

GET REAL! The virtual world of the Internet is no substitute for a REAL LIFE support network of friends and/or family!

There are over 7+ billion people on this planet and yet, there's really only one person that I can call, day or night, and just talk with about anything and know that I'll be accepted regardless of any difference in opinion. One person out of 7+ billion! How sad and pathetic is that!?

Yes, there are a scant handful of others with whom I can dialogue and/or ask questions of, but the vast majority of Internet acquaintances are just that! Further, these are only responsive if I happen to agree with them on "this" or "that" topic!

Friendship, like love, is a word that is bandied about these days.

Yehoshua ben Perachia said, "Make for yourself a rabbi, acquire for yourself a friend, and judge every person favorably" - Pirkei Avot 1:6.

Sadly, this is easier said than done in our world. :(

One of my favorite lines from L.M. Montgomery's book, "Anne of Green Gables," is when the main character, Anne Shirley, says, "Plum puffs won't minister to a mind diseased." Seeking comfort and consolation and fellowship from food or "friend collecting" on the Internet is rather like plate of "plum puffs," IMO. Neither is a substitute for finding a kindered spirit and acquiring a bosom friend.

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